Re: False Suspension
You have misunderstood something -- it doesn't matter that you've logged into your hosting account (I can't remember the last time I logged into mine), it's the forum that you need to log into. That requirement is in place to make sure that you can stay up-to-date with changes (in server configurations, policies, etc.).
Accounts aren't removed right away (it's generally after at least fourteen days have passed since the account was suspended), so after having logged into the forum you should be able to unsuspend yourself from the hosting account panel.
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