Re: Interactive Community Based Website -- "Am I the only one..."
I actually like the complementary colour scheme. It's not intended to be a passive site -- your visitors aren't there to read, they're there to engage -- and a monochromatic colour scheme tends to engender passivity. Yes, it's jarring and all "Web-2.0-call-to-action" and stuff, but that's kinda the point, isn't it?
And I'm good with the anonymity thing too. If the premise of the site is "I think I might be an oddball", then people who really think they might be oddballs are going to be a little bit reticent about airing their weirdness in public. If it even smells like you're encouraging identity (even an identifiable nick on the site) by "singling out" anonymous posters, then you're in grave danger of moving away from foibles and eccentricities into a "shock competition", and that will drive away the target user group (which, really, is everybody who doesn't have delusions of utter social conformity).
The site is different by design -- don't fall into the trap of sameness. And if not everybody gets it, that's okay too -- seven billion uniques a day is really hard to handle, even if they're all a little bit odd.
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